My feeling is that you should keep the expectations that this will be a sex nite low...and just go out and have fun with him! Wear what makes you feel good inside and have a great time.
I am not going soft on the sex issue with you...we'll hit Mr.HP hard after the baby is born.
IHJ-- who was reading thru the posts fast, and thought you wrote that it would take you 3 minutes to recover from the delivery, not 3 months, LOLOL