Don't go down that path sunshine!! You are doing so great in moving on with your life. I lurk and hear happiness in your words.
D is being an a&&, but so what else is new?
Dig out your stuff from your A, make your list, run it through the realtor, then have A send it to D and his A. Then do your part and ignore his. You will have done what was agreed upon, it is his fault if he doesn't. The realtor can reduce the selling price proportionate to what D hasn't done on the improvements and remove that from his cut.
Sage and Pamila were completely right - I just had to get my two cents in!
I want to hear more of the excited Pam, the one telling us about her new house, the kids adjusting to it, her new friend and neighbor, etc.
If you write like that, I'll come visit again. I know you still have moments of sadness, but I was under the impression that they are quickly becoming less and less!
You go girl!
totite
"Accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative..."