Not having any expertise in this arena, I have not wanted to even try to recommend a course of action.
Sage is NOT mad at you, she is just trying to help you in a way that would be productive and not cumbersome.
I agree with her suggestion of giving David a list of what needs to be done, along with who will do what, and who should pay for it. Send it to him Fed Ex if you need to and send copies via regualr mail to all of the A's involved plus the realator. Like she says, if he doesn't respond by a certain time then he is agreeing to what you have proposed.
If this is out of the realm of what feels comfortable to you then get an attorney to draft the document.
