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I'm also going to say (bluntly but not without compassion) that you've indicated that you've "gone off" on D of late...DB'ing is similar pre and post Divorce, Pam...if you want to encourage conversation, you have to make it "safe".



Maybe I am ready for it to just be over. I may have put all the energy and dbing into this R that I am capable of at this point.

But, Ms. Sage, THANK YOU. I KNOW I absoultely do NOT absorb almost anything when I am this stressed out.

I will read your posts after I calm down and feel better so I can pull the info that I need out of them and Thank you for being a friend.


Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"