Sage,

I'm not comfortable with this many people involved either.

But D WILL NOT call me back or answer e-mails. If I don't happen to catch him at his desk or at the house there is no contact with him.

All that does is stress me out and tear me up.

G offered to deal with him as we know he can be reached at J's.

And I won't call there to deal with him.

Pam

"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned
so as to have the life that is waiting for us"