Pam -- I've struggled all day with what to post to you on this topic...sigh...maybe I'm just too blunt or I don't know...but I think it's just NOT a good idea to have G involved AT ALL in this...I wouldn't have him get involved in your interest in the house or anything. It just seems like a tangled mess that is doomed.
That being said...the list that he proposes at the end of his e-mail is exactly what I've been suggesting all along...(must be the ENGINEER in me!)...an agreed upon list of who is doing what and when. I (personally) don't think that having that go from you -> G -> J -> D and back again is at all constructive...my two cents is go directly to D with a list of things you think need to occur before the sale and your stake in the ground on who will do what...
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.
