I guess I need it. G is telling me the same thing, that the work in the house will still be there, to relax and have some fun.
So tomorrow night I am going to dinner with G's psychologist friend S and another friend T that was at B's birthday party. S instructed me to meet at T's condo and we are going across the river to an Italian restaurant. So probably one I have never been too. I tried to cancel and G gave me a hard time. He headed out of town today or otherwise he would have probably threatened to pick me up.
These guys have all been amazingly supportive. Probably because they have all been through a divorce and know J as well.
I have mentioned to G the possibility of having part of my interest in PK and him taking over dealing with D so I don't have to any more. I think dealing with D is keeping me stuck a bit.
Mostly the frustration of not being able to reach him. Plus G would not make the emotional decisions that I would make on the house.
Not sure which D would prefer to deal with, emotional me, or the man whose wife he cheated with twice.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
