I have really been enjoying my new home. It isn't PK, but it is nice and it kept us all together.
My fence isn't totally finished but it is all closed in now so the shelties got to spend some time yesterday evening in their yard!
It was such a nice evening last night that several people were out walking and I got to meet another neighbor. This seems to be a nice bunch of people here I hope the rest moving in on our street are nice as well.
Saw D yesterday at PK. It was during the middle of the afternoon. Startled him when I walked into the office where he was at.
Wished him Happy Birthday. Checked on fans and sprayed some stuff on the carpet.
He seemed ok, not hateful, not talkative, mostly just kept going through stuff on his desk, but talked a little.
I did tell him he was welcome to come over this evening for birthday cake, ice cream and shiraz, probably not all at the same time. He gave his usual no answer type of answer. I was curious to see what he would say as I figure he and J were going out for his birthday.
The divorce still bothers me but there are times now that I am glad I don't have to deal with his no answers, conflict avoidance and procrastination!!
But I do still miss the friendship we had.
I'm sure with more time that I will feel that loss less than I do right now.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
