I woudl be open to that as long as it did not turn into another bashing session on the W. It truely seems that every C we have been to has wnated to blame every thingf on W. I have owned this problem to all of them and they all want to just say that the W needs to be less demanding and more understanding, well im my opinion that is BS. She deserves a better life then what she has now and I want it to be with me but I can't seem to do what it takes to make it happen. I mean every now and again I start getting W to see how much I love and appreciate her and then it seems like with in a couple of days it is back to the same old thing before I even know what the hell happened. THis in my mind is the root of the whole FING thing, getting me to know when things are starting to go bad and stopping it before it is already to late and the W gets hurt yet again...........