I watch porn with him... I have even been the one to order it for HIM!! I have tried to get him to understand that he DOESNT have a problem....he has a defeatist attitude. I try and prove to him all the time that when he just relaxes and lets things happen they work. That is why I have NEVER told him no when he actually initiates (even if I am not really into it) I know I will be shortly so I just go with it. I also want to point out that when things are "working" our ML sessions are incredible!!!! He is very attentive and very loving.
