ok, Im not trying to be the representaiveof men on this board but having said that here goes:
Attaction and sex, provided that the equipment is working ok, men can have pleasurable sex with a women that isn't necessarrily attracted to. Im not trying to trivialize attraction, passion, romance, etc (see my other posts for more details), but someone who we are not attraced to, can turn us on and result in us wanting to have sex.
I cant say that any woman could get me turned on, but the efforts that you seem to go to would definately be a turn on for me or most men. There is a difference of getting turned on by a spouse or getting turned on by someone else. I could get very turned on by a lap dance at a strip club, not saying I would want to have sex with her, or would be necessarrily attraced to her.
