Quote: One of the things I did wrong in the pre-bomb era was this: I loved my H and appreciated many of the things he did for me, but while I had all these nice thoughts about him, I didn't SHOW or TELL them to him. Imagine that, my H was not a mind-reader!!!!
So one of the things I have changed is to try to express those thoughts more often when I have them. This is still difficult at times because I am rather an introvert and live in my own head a lot.
I can relate...I'm getting better at telling h when I really appreciate or love something that he's doing...I've found that it makes HIM feel good but also encourages him to keep doing it! I really love it, too, when he lets me know what he likes and appreciates!
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.