I reread my comment " a happy, healthy, sexual raletionship and I want to correct that to say a Happy, Healthy and Sexual Relationship/Marriage. My marriage is literally the most important thing in my life. If it was just about the sex or lack of it I would have been gone years ago. I love my H and think he is the most amazing person. I have been told by him and others ( family, friends etc) that I need to take him off the pedestal I have put him on cuz he ain't that special. I always find a reason for him to be up there!!