You have the best way of explaining things! I have threatened to find my attention from elsewhere and I get the " IF you cheat on me we are finished " statement. See he won't give it to me and then expects that I will stay here with him no matter what. I never thought about the golden c*ck thing though! Do you really think he feels that way? OMG light bulb duh?!!! I feel like an idiot right now.