I know I sound like I'm always preaching for a counselor...but I can only speak from my own experience. I know that I could never have gotten through to my husband...he was so wrapped up in trying not to repeat the his past mistakes that he didn't see he was making an all new HUGE one. Through that experience I've definitely learned that our counselor was able to sort of sneak in under his radar...it was a complete surprise to him when what he was doing actually came out of his own mouth, in his own words...then the lightbulb came on.
All you can do is try...who knows, it may work :-) It does sound like a cry for help to me too Hair Pup :-) She may not be as resistent as you think (I hope).
