Hang in there, and congrats for sticking up for yourself this morning.
Quote: not to mention the fact that "working on it" is just kind of insulting in and of itself. Why did you marry me if you have to work so hard on desiring me?
This is something that I struggle with as well. I know that MARRIAGE is supposed to be work, and even the overall RELATIONSHIP, and CERTAINLY trying to raise four kids. But why should it be "work" to hold my hand or scratch my head?
Stay the course... sounds like it's gonna get worse before it gets better.