I called the Marriage and Family Health Center in Evergreen Colorado and left a message for them to (hopefully) call me back with a Schnarchy counselor near me. Thanks for the advice, Corri.

I still feel like moving to the basement. I don't feel welcome in the bedroom, and it is downright painful for me to be next to her and not be able to touch her. I find myself laying awake for far too long, wondering if I'd wake her up if I just barely touched her breasts, etc. It's not a good, healthy thing to be thinking about. I'd be moving there for my own good, not necessarily hers.

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