I know, but what does that mean, "being ready to.." Sounds to me like it means that we need to threaten, and be completely willing to follow through with said threat. well, I for one, can't. that's all I'm saying. any "threats" from me would be "idle", and if my bluff were called...then I'd lose all credibility.

I guess I'd rather just stay in a loveless marriage than abandon my family. Its not like there's a line forming, waiting for me to become free of my encumberances. so I might as well live here as any place else.

-Chuck...between a rock and a hard place.