The day you are ready to walk away is the day you actually have the strength to save your marriage... you are losing your illusions. When you are able to see the marriage for what it is, and not how you want to see it, is the day you have the courage to draw your boundary.
If you don't do this Hairdog, I promise you, promise you, as my shrink promised me, you will continue to make the same mistakes over and over and over again.
If you are ready and willing to walk away, you have nothing to lose by drawing a boundary, and only everything to gain. Trust me on this one, guy. Ask MoJo. Ask Nopkins. Ask AtlantaDave.
wow. isn't that a bit harsh? did a shrink really say that? yikes.
well, I have no illusions, but I'm not walking away. I don't see what it would solve, and I'm not leaving my boy to grow up without a father. besides that, I am their only means of support, and I can't afford 2 housholds. If we have to live like room-mates for the next 20 years, then so be it.
