Quote: I just want to lay down and catch up on my sleep.
Welcome to your crucible, honey. The day you are ready to walk away is the day you actually have the strength to save your marriage... you are losing your illusions. When you are able to see the marriage for what it is, and not how you want to see it, is the day you have the courage to draw your boundary.
If you don't do this Hairdog, I promise you, promise you, as my shrink promised me, you will continue to make the same mistakes over and over and over again.
If you are ready and willing to walk away, you have nothing to lose by drawing a boundary, and only everything to gain. Trust me on this one, guy. Ask MoJo. Ask Nopkins. Ask AtlantaDave.
And yes, it's the scariest thing you will ever do in your life. Why that is beats the shiit outta me... but it's the only way through your he!!.