Give me some credit. I said basically the same thing as Corri. LOL
Quote: She also told me to get out of HER bed, HER house, and threatened to move to her Mom's house (in another state) so that I couldn't file for divorce (which, frankly, I didn't understand...her best bet would be to file today, and get an order of protection, forbidding me to live in the house). She also picked up the phone, said she was going to dial 911 and tell the police that I was ABUSING her!
Why do you think that she feels like it is HER house and BED? Do you think just the fact that you didn't leave the bed when she asked you to was "abuse" in her mind?
I think this behavior kind of goes along with a thought that I've been having about your W which is that since this is her first marriage and she entered it rather late in life, a lot of her problems might have more to do with dealing with the demands of marriage in general, rather than any specific demands you are putting on her. Some of her behavior seems to be like that of an only child who is suddenly confronted with having to share her bedroom with a newly adopted sibling. You are invading her space with your messy life and on top of that you have the nerve to demand that she should humor you by playing some "games" that you enjoy.
I don't really have any good advice except to say that obviously you need to maintain your stand on the issues that arose. IMO it would be impossible for you to have any sort of self-respect if you back down.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
