HD wrote: ------------- W: Too hot (pushing hand away) H: I would really like to touch you somewhere. When you push my hand away, that is what I meant when I said I feel you pushing away. It's both physical and emotional for me. W: Sorry, it's just too hot. I don't want you touching me. -------------
Since you won't come out and tell her that she just PISSED YOU OFF, and then be willing to work through it with her, try out these.
W: Sorry, it's just too hot. I don't want you touching me. H: You're right, it is too hot - then kick off all the covers. Refuse to put them back on the bed.
W: Sorry, it's just too hot. I don't want you touching me. H: "You're right, it is too hot. You go sleep on the couch, I will stay here." Then roll over, fart under the sheets and go to sleep.
You could always make "It's too hot" your mantra.
W: Please cut up those limbs in the yard. H: It's too hot.
W: Please clean out the garage. H: It's too hot.
W: Meet me for lunch. H: It's too hot.
W: Make me a watermelon sandwich. H: Poof, you're a watermelon sandwich - er, ah, it's too hot.
W: I am stuck at the main intersection downtown with a flat tire, and I need your help! H: It's too hot.
:-)
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
