Fuzzy, I agree with MM, if you address being pushed away when it happens, at least your W will have a concrete idea of what you mean by being pushed away. She can choose to respond or not, but you can almost bet that she will be thinking about it. You are giving her a gift by letting her know what is going on inside you.
I don't mind the sun sometime
The images it shows
I can taste you on my lips
And smell you in my clothes
Cinnamon and Sugar
And softly spoken lies
You never know just how you look
Through someone elses eyes
BHS-"Pepper"