I don't think HOM requires 'doormat' status of the operator.
Stop eating crap and stand up for yourself before you really do snap and do something stupid.
You already know what I think about this stuff.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.