annette, BF and C both agree that it should be my turn, but talk is cheap. I do lots of stuff on my own and have friends, activities, etc. that do not include BF. We do absolutely great on a day to day basis. We're like a house where everything on the ground floor is absolutely perfect, but you go upstairs to the bedroom, and someone left the window open...there's snow on the bedspread, cobwebs up in the corners... he sees it as a dark and scary place. He told the C yesterday that he has been experiencing erectile problems for the past 15 years or so. I gather his ex also complained about infrequency. According to BF the way the ex complained was by going back to the bedroom and shouting to him: Get back here and fcuk me!" He didn't like that approach.
I must start focusing on myself more, but I'm getting really tired of solo sex (not that it isn't Good-- it is )
I don't think he even masturbates. He's very fastidious and a borders on prudishness sometimes. He doesn't turn his head away during romantic or erotic scenes on tv. If I look at him, he is usually smiling and seems to think it's very sweet. He says he wants that kind of R for us... but as I said in the beginning: talk is cheap.
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