I can understand your being anxious about it all, believe me I really do. I think patience is the key with these situations though. What does the C and BF say when you ask about it being your turn? I do know that it wasn't until I didn't really care and started doing things on my own, that he really cared about it all.
I'm surprised some others have not chimmed in here about the PM concept. Keep reading, learning and trying.
