Quote: X was complaining that they are out of control at her house . . . it's basically because they don't respect her because of her abuse (she's a mean drunk), she's not consistent in her discipline, and she shows big-time favoritism to DD9 over them. Anyway, I'll let you know how it goes. One goal is to get the boys to confront their mom about her alcoholism, but that's a lot to put on their shoulders.
You're right, it is a lot to put on their shoulders. In fact, since there is a minor child (chidren) involved, it should be on your shoulders. If your X is an alcoholic, I think it is your responsibility to challenge her fitness as a mother. She will either sober up and provide a safe household for them, or they'll be with you full time, where you will be able to provide a safe household. Either way, it's not about your X, it's about your kids.
Didn't mean to punch you in the nose,
SM
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