VAINAMOINEN: Folk Hero God of The Kalevala, The son of ILMATAR, he spent 730 years in her womb and became so bored waiting to be born that he took matters into his own hands and crawled out. Keep this guy's spell away from HP
Many people say patience is a virtue. VAINAMOINEN (730 years) has it. Is your H trying to emulate him?
I watch a program called "Lonely Planet" on "The Travel Channel". They had a 1 hour program about Finland. Saw where there is a "Wife Carrying Race" where the man carries the woman through a pool of water or across a stream. Also know about the Sauna and branches. Russians do the polar bear swim without benefit of a sauna-not for me.
Wish I could help with the LM for you and H. Can only get my situation to work out sometimes.