Thanks for the hugs and the suggestions...I've been thinking about what you said, and I'm not sure...first I was thinking I was just trying to avoid things, but if that's what I have to do to get my H to notice me, it's going to be a while...
RIght now I have a pile of laundry a mile high since nobody did laundry last week while I was gone. There's this afternoon's dirty dishes in the sink since H broke the washer the other day, hasn't fixed it, and I didn't get to them before I left for work, since I was chasing two very active 4 yr olds. Tommorrow is my first day off in 2 weeks, and I'm really looking forward to spending most of it outside with the kids, since they've also promised sun (which, if it's true, will mean the first two days of sun we've had all month).
Food: H is one of those people who eat to live. I love to cook, I would make gourmet meals every night, heck, three times a day, but H turns up his nose to anything but the small list of things he will eat (I have managed to make that list quite a bit longer in the 14 yrs we've been together)
So, maybe sex isn't so high on my list of priorities after all. Besides, if I stop showing any kind of physical touch to H, we'll just be back to where we were six months ago.
Sorry guys. I guess today's not the greatest day for dealing with this...partially hormonal, partially just exhaustion talking. Besides, I know I'm not supposed to have expectations, but all I can see with the viking outfit is H laughing at me, and pointing out that Vikings are Norweigan, not Finnish...
