Quote: radually add some very small physical touches then one day, surprise him by saying something like "Rape and pillage me you gorgeous Viking hunk!".
I would, perhaps, suggest that you be wearing a furry bikini (kind of like Raquel Welch wore in "One Million Years, B.C." and an iron helmet with horns when you try this. Braids would be nice, too. Put on "Ride of the Valkyries" and if he doesn't ravage you that very moment, you have more serious problems than a SSM . . . you are married to a man with no pulse.