Quote: But the idea stuck with me. W wanted to invest in real estate, and I didn't want to, because I figured I would have to do all the work. But then I thought, why am I stopping her? I'm just giving her another reason to complain about me.
Be careful. I think it can be counter-productive to do things in your relationship in order to get sex that have nothing to do with sex directly. However, if you feel like the only reason you weren't going along with the real estate idea was bitterness due to lack of sex, it was probably the right thing to do.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver