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I believe that you said you were a musician. Do you earn any money from that? Does H control that money? Your H certainly should not have the right to spend exhorbitant amounts on his "habits."




I do make a meager salary providing crucibles to teenagers who seem to think that playing the flute involves showing up for your lesson with a stack of music and an instrument (can you tell I had a bad day yesterday??)

It's not as bad as it sounds. H's 'habits' are mainly books and CDs, so I can't really complain, but I do feel the lack of power. Both in spending, and in my job - I have a long commute, and for me to stay closer to home right now would require lots of work on my part, and a drop in salary in the beginning. I do like my job, but it's not what I want to be doing for the next 20 yrs. I feel a little boxed in in that I do the majority of the house/kidwork, and commute, which leaves me no time/energy to do much else - though I don't even get the option of turning down sex(which I wouldn't do anyway). Yes, I'm having a pity party, wanna come??