I feel for you and hope that your situation is different as far as the depression aspect is concerned.
There was nothing I hated worse then to get the call asking me to pick something up when she had been out running around doing errands that day. The worst was when she NEEDED me yo pick up some resume paper because she ran out. I told her I would on my way home and she said thanks, it was no rush as she was waiting for a 3:00 movie to start that she and our daughter where going to watch. I looked at my watch and it was 1:30 AND the office depot was across the street from the theatre!!!!!!!!! When I got home she wanted to know why I was so grumpy?????
With the recent events, I feel bad for all the things I felt and thought at the time, but believe me I know what you are going through.
Hang in there, if it is depression she needs you to be strong. If it is something else much smaller, you need to still be strong.
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DazednadConfuzed - looking for that magic wand....no MOJO not that one!