I do believe that my H needles me; and I do believe he is passive agressive. The question is, "How on earth am I going to live with that for the rest of my life, when he doesn't want to do anything about it?" Does the book answer that question. I don't think Zoloft is a long term solution for me.
I "think" that taking Zoloft is better than being angry, but it's hard to say. I was hoping for some emotion-free time to think, but I'm not really able to concentrate enough to think. I keep finding myself staring off into space, listening to myself breathe. The anxiety is a little better, but I definately am distracted.
The good news is that we're talking about sex again. Last night he was even doling out some old (or maybe it was new) complaints that I'd never heard before. I just sat there thinking, "Gee that doesn't really ring a bell, but there's no point in arguing with him." Sigh. I even managed to say something constructive.
