I read a book that showed statistically, that ...this was using examples from only one particular profession...that when there are problems in a marriage that this particular professional type almost always blames it on the partner being crazy or depressed.
I read a book called "Living with a Passive/Agressive Man". Seems that the most common response to living with a P/A man is for the woman to become angry and frustrated and 'yell' a lot. Then SHE is seen as the crazy one.
Point: It may be true that a partner can behave in such a way that we cannot 'talk ' to them, let them know what we are feeling. If we do, often they don't respond with compassion. We get frustrated, we get hurt, we get angry and finally react by, according to them...acting crazy. And so the blame shifts from the P/A behaviors, which are hidden and disguised (tho based in anger and fear and resentment)to us, who react honestly and openly and get called 'crazy', bitchy, nagging etc.
Just a thought and maybe something to read up on and discuss with your therapist.
