We have had arguements on a whole bunch of different issues...among them cities to live in and when to retire. He has at least listened to my choices however he always manages to discredit them and i just give in and say ok what ever you want. I get tired of having my choices diminished and belittled so I stop giving my choices. Which in turn causes the arguement that I never say what I want!!! Kind of like a dog chasing his tail.
