I understand completely. Here is an example of one of many dynamics in our marriage... he will ask my opinion about something like ..buying his harley.. what I like, dont like, color etc. I tell him and he responds for a half hour telling me the reasons why those choices won't work for him and then does it the way he wants anyways. Then gets mad when I wont offer up a suggestion or opinion on other things. I feel like it really doesnt matter what I want, he is going to do it his way anyways.
