That is, what are you prepared to do if he does not get in touch with his sexual side?
Hugs and hang in there. This is a long journey and this is just the beginning. There are a lot of success stories here although they are all works in progress. There will usually be no "We cured it! We will never have desire discrepancies again!!" but there will be a time and place that you both feel content with the status of your sex life, if you both buy into the reality of having to work on your own issues.
