I have been keeping up your with your threads and your most recent and to be very honest it didn't surprise me that your H would want a D. And then come to find out that maybe he doesn't know what HE wants.
I think that WA starts to move close and then OP rears their head reminding WA of what they've done, (strayed from the M)and then WA goes backwards if that makes sense. Rather than facing the "mess" it's somehow seems easier to want out, that way they don't have to face themselves or their real commitment, their M. Once WA distances themselves, again, they do come close, hesitantly and are confused once again. Not knowing what they want. The cycle continues.
Have faith my friend, keep your eyes of your circumstances on the man up stairs, he will not fail you.
