As I continue to ruminate about my marriage, a question came to mind for the HDs out there:
when you do have sex with your spouse - how does it start?
In our case, every 3 to 6 months, my wife will start acting affectionate, evolving in downright horny and we will have hot sex. Next day is back to normal.
It takes about 2-5 days to go from affectionate to horny. I don't initiate or act any different. It's like a switch gets turned on for her, and off the next day. We often talk right after sex and she usually apologizes for not doing this more often, etc. These conversations usually don't go very far (I may try to exploit that opportunity next time it presents itself.)

What about ya'll? Does your spouse eventually give in to your incessant demands? Is it a scheduled event? Or heat of the moment like us?

Please do tell.

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