Julie wrote:
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Could it be? Is he getting it? You think?
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Oh, I certainly do think he is getting it! He overcame TWO things. (1)He realized that he had missed something with you, (2) he actually got up and did something about it. Acknowledgment and action is a real step toward permanent change.

These are good things.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.