Just remember that as you recognize your contribution to the problem, you don't forget that he has had a part in the current state of your marriage as well. It is fairly easy to go too far in the opposite direction in an effort to repair the relationship. The both of you should discuss equitable boundaries and then stick to them.
I am excited for you, Julie!!
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
