Honey... NOP (thank you... ) anyone else:

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Is there a way that you can reconcile the fact that you are the caretaker without it becoming the wedge that drives you away from him?



I'm sure I can, when I am done with my Pity Party. Right now, no.

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One final question: What are some ACTIONS that your H could do to show you that he is committed?



I thought I answered this. Okay, I feel really stupid silly... I thought this was pretty clear? But my answer, again, to your question is: "Look me in the eye and say, Honey, I miss you and I need to be close to you. I'd like to ML to you."

Honey, I miss you and I need to be close to you. Will you come with me and the boys to hockey practice?

Honey, I miss you and I need to be close to you. Will you sit outside with me while I wash the car?

Honey, I miss you and I need to be close to you. YOU mean so much to me.

I love you is fine... but jeese, it just becomes so trite, so banal, cause we say it all the time.

I want to HEAR from HIS MOUTH that **I** am important to him, ALL IN THE SAME SENTENCE...and for that tiny little bit I will walk to the friggin end of the earth with him.

Is this really not clear?

Corri