I think that you do still have work to do in the training department.
As you well know, Guys do things differently. One of the hardest things for a guy to do is several things at once.
Likely, your husband has a plate full of things that he feels like he needs to fix. relationship work is already hard enough for most guys as is. He is probably thinking "what the hell do I do with all this stuff?'
So, let's make it simple for him, especially now that he has a good excuse to pull out whenever he needs it (work). This is also likely the reason he took the new position.
So, take out an index card. On one side write "The Key To Corri's Heart". On the other side, write something like; "In order to open Corri's heart, please place the following need (or need's - but no more than TWO) at equal importance to (hubby's name) need for sex."
Put the card in a prominent place in his briefcase or some other place where he will see it.
The card is just an idea. What is important is that you place ONE thing on his plate to deal with, not many. If it is a complex need, present it simply, and let him expand it as he works on it.
Keep the need in front of him so that he can't ignore it. Expect fallout....
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
