Quote: What if I said, don't let your H's lame ability to have sex interfere with your enjoyment of meaningful emotional connection. See what I mean? There's GOT to be giving on both sides of the equation in order for this to balance out, or at some point, somebody is going to crash and burn.
I agree, but once again I must protest that in my sich it's always going to be me because it's not like my H is great at doling out the intimacy either. I really wish there was something I felt like I could do besides not being a wimp or losing weight. I know on some level not being a wimp is what I'm doing to increase emotional connection, but it's counter-intuitive even to my H.
I guess that's why I'm encouraging you to keep on truckin' with the sex. At least you know that is something you can do that your H appreciates.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
