Quote: Hmm, for all my flaunting myself as an HDW, part of the reason I haven't been pushing for sex more, is that I'm not sure I can do that. It feels to me a little like selling out, or faking it. Guess that's something I need to get over...
Maybe I should qualify what I said by indicating that I didn't mean that anyone could enjoy having sex with a man who was being a jerk sexually. I just meant that it's possible to enjoy having sex with a guy even if you're in the middle of an acrimonious fight. I didn't mean it was possible to enjoy having sex with a guy who is sexually selfish or boorish. Aggressive feelings can be incorporated into a sexual event but nobody wants to feel humiliated during sex (okay some people do but that isn't what I'm talking about).
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
