I wish I had some wonderful words of wisdom to impart...Sounds as if up till now, you've been doing enough differentiating to get things going, but he has yet to do his part.
---------------------- MM wrote:
Quote: I think you need to do what I did when I confronted my H about his inability to tell me that he was "in love" with me. Just treat this problem your H has about being LD in terms of expressing his love openly, the same way a sexually HD person would treat the sex problem. The only thing I would suggest is that maybe you shouldn't mix it up with the sex problem. Don't let your H's lame inability to express his emotions interfere with your progress in enjoying sex. Remember the Mojo motto and to put it very crudely- Don't punish your p*ssy for what he's doing to your heart/head. I believe that you are 100% capable of enjoying sex even with a man who is behaving like a total jerk.
Hmm, for all my flaunting myself as an HDW, part of the reason I haven't been pushing for sex more, is that I'm not sure I can do that. It feels to me a little like selling out, or faking it. Guess that's something I need to get over...
