BMOW received my care package of business inventory. She is not pleased. In fact, she is so not pleased that she won't even address it with my H, probably because she knows I have access to his email. Instead, she addressed it with one of the other business partners whose email I don't have access to. And the business partner most likely didn't forward the email because it is not a nice one and didn't want me or H to have to read it and be upset. Regardless, my H finally addressed this issue with me!
When my H came home for lunch today, he inquired if I had been mailing things to BMOW. I said I had forwarded things for the business as they came in the mail and I had recently sent her some inventory I had found while cleaning house and asked why. He then told me that she expressed to the other business partner that she feels that H and I are harrassing her by doing this.
Okaaaayyyyyyy.
My H then very nicely asked me to simply give him anything else in the future that I thought BMOW should have and he would pass it on to her through one of the other business partners. Then he grinned at me and said that BMOW has announced that she is seriously considering leaving the business after the Christmas buying season is over!! Then he grinned at me again! I am not sure if he was grinning at my fortitude or BMOW's announcement or both, or if he simply had gas, but he WAS grinning when he said that.
Well, I shall respect my H's request to stop directly sending her things. Perhaps sending the box of excess inventory was a bit overboard. However, I have made my boundary known to both H and BMOW and it is time to be still again and let the Lord do His work.
LG--
A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.
