Good Morning Ellen! Your post gave me a smile. Yes, there are actually several positives in my situation and I am very thankful for them.
I have never sat down and read any of the John Gray books. I would imagine I need to add his stuff to my already extensive personal self-help library. I am also interested in reading Dr. Laura's book, "The Care and Feeding of Husbands,"--I think is what it is called. Perhaps I should put these books on my Christmas wish list! Hahahaha!!
I did come to the same conclusion in my ponderings last night as you did about actually getting my H back on the ADs and getting him somewhat stable mentally before we have any painful, involved discussions. If we can achieve this, I think a lot of our problems will actually solve themselves.
When he was on his meds at the beginning of our reconciliation, things were going *so* much better for us in all areas of our marriage. I can't help but think that we can get back to that with him being properly treated for his depression. Then we can, I hope, productively address the problems that remain in our marriage.
Yes, there are actually several positives in my situation and I am very thankful for them.
