The Lord gave me an incredibly blessed day today! My H took today off to spend time with me!!!

We spent the entire morning together in bed (no, still none of that). We drank coffee and had an outstanding talk. We covered everything from BMOW to religion in quite a bit of detail. I can't even remember the last time we had a talk like this. I feel more emotionally connected to H than I have in a long, long time.

We had lunch and then spent the afternoon talking again together on the sofa. The mail came after lunch and it contained another interesting tidbit for BMOW. It was a letter from a credit card company telling my H that the "small business" card in his name had just been upgraded to a higher limit, etc.

Feeling very empowered by our talks, I asked H about this credit card. What was up? I thought he had filed bankruptcy on ALL his cards. He said that he didn't know anything about this card and that BMOW probably applied for it for the business and didn't think to tell him for whatever reason. I said the card is in your name. That means that she forged your signature. He said that he didn't think she would do a thing like that! I just shook my head and said very calmly and matter-of-factly that I wanted him to contact her via email first thing tomorrow and to request that his name be taken off the card, or have the account cancelled, or both. And if he doesn't deal with this promptly, I WILL get involved and take care of it. He immediately responded that he absolutley would get it taken care of tomorrow. I'll be checking, so we'll see.

Then we calmly resumed our talking. All in all, a GREAT day! Oh and I did get that other collection notice forwarded to BMOW and her info forwarded to the collection agency.

LG--GO me!!

A blessed and happy marriage is a union of two forgivers and Him, because...a cord of three strands is not quickly broken. Ecclesiastes 4:12.